Any piece that is clinging onto you, is doing so because of immense vulnerability - underneath the malice, or manipulations, or meanness. You may not be able to engage with that part of its nature, but it's possible to make very difficult and hard decisions, even ones that cause pain and/or disengagement, from a compassionate place.
Almost like the place you have to be in when you put a pet down. You know it's the right thing, but it's done from a place of peace and compassion.
It might also be worth looking at what you're going to replace that part with - since it may be attaching to you due to spaces in your own spirit. Is there are a part of you clinging onto him?
It's frustrating when medications make it so that you can't journey. Effexor did that for me. :(
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Date: 2009-03-13 08:01 am (UTC)Almost like the place you have to be in when you put a pet down. You know it's the right thing, but it's done from a place of peace and compassion.
It might also be worth looking at what you're going to replace that part with - since it may be attaching to you due to spaces in your own spirit. Is there are a part of you clinging onto him?
It's frustrating when medications make it so that you can't journey. Effexor did that for me. :(